Make Your Date Awesome With Girls Tonight

Traditionally, a date, women are judging the man and the man trying to impress women. All this does is set up a barrier between you that will never exist, if you knew each other in a different context. How are you supposed to know the real man if you force them to do something outrageous just to get your attention? How are you supposed to attract the woman you are trying to buy her affection?

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If you have not noticed, I do not like the word “date” because traditionally it has a negative connotation to it, the first is the idea that a “serious” exchange. (? It is somewhat ironic that I’m known as a “dating coach” eh) so my first tips on the first date are:

Make a date as a non-traditional as possible.

The general rule for men and women who go on dates is to make them funny, mysterious and exciting. I have a friend, Jessica, who was using an online local dating site, and would go two or three dates a week. She complained about how the guys were always so boring!

I asked her where she went on dates, and his response was: “It is a rule that the first time I go out with a guy, it must be for dinner in this restaurant near my apartment. It is most convenient for me after work. “That’s the problem! Dates annoying because they were so traditional. I told him just to let the guys decide to go for dates of the next year.

It took a couple of dates more boring, but gave gold for my advice. The third man came out, took him on an adventure she will never forget. Before the meeting with him, sent him a text that said:

“Meet me at the corner of Commonwealth and the lighthouse at 20:00. The use of sneakers, jeans and bring a little paprika. Come for adventure with girls tonight and enjoy night.”

I had no idea what the hell this guy was talking about, but I was very curious. I mean, why paprika?

He picked it up and took her to Boston Museum of Fine Arts for a new exhibition that just opened. Sneakers and jeans were for comfort and paprika was just a joke. It was fun with her and while saying that it was not a normal “date”. It is mysterious, exciting and funny at once.

Jessica told me that they ran around the museum as they were in sixth grade study trip. Even more vitally, they were just being you, no structure, no talk “seriously”, which do not affect each other. They fell for each other. It ‘was the best time he had ever been a “date”, and do not eat or drink alcohol.

In short, break the rules and do something unique. Here are some suggestions for the first time men dating and women dating:

– Day in the life of you (take the girl / boy around the neighborhood).

– Go to a farmers market.

– Go to a park and bring toys and games (Frisbees, bowls, scrabble).

– Jump in the car and “see where it ends” (I recommend always having a backup plan in case you are in any interesting place!).

– Go with the Committee (going to the grocery store can be great fun if you let it).

– Check out local events, exhibitions, festivals, carnivals, outdoor concerts, etc.

Above all, decide on the number of dating is the right coach that makes it fun and unique. That’s why I do not recommend running a traditional dinner in the days: Dinner dates are automatically given a tone of “serious” any date.

Even eating with someone who does not know very well may be difficult for both populace. Be different. If you’re stuck on the idea that the date is not a date, unless the dinner is included, try to remember why you think so.

Perhaps you’ve never tried anything different. Perhaps this is what you’ve always seen on television. Do not be afraid to break this “social norm”!