Make a Romantic Date with Girlfriend

You have been out on the dates, made those late-night phone calls and sipped your coffee or digestive with her. The dessert has been consumed and you find that the walls of the bistro have been restored by the walls of her home or your residence.

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You are almost too attentive of that soft outside beckoning you, and you intolerantly want to sink under the plush covers that is, while you plunder and sink into the beautiful woman you most want to untangle.

Yet, while you fumble with clothes, an irritating little thought appears in rapid and dampening sequence. Does she want me to stay? Is the bathroom clean? Is that my roommate coming home? Is her roommate coming home? Did I wash the sheets? Did I put that picture of my ex away? Tiny little questions like these can quickly become your bane if left unchecked. After all, these considerations can mean a second encounter or can sadly result in your un-returned phone calls.

Here are some tips to secure that your first time with her will lead to a second time and a third and a fourth.

Be fresh and approachable

At this point common practices of cleanliness apply. By “common” I’m referring to your home or apartment building as well as your body. Your break should be free of garbage lying around or your dirty laundry sprawled out. This also includes removing any pictures of your ex or underwear from “some girlfriend you had over the other night.

If your bathroom is unclean, she will not be comfortable — she won’t want to stay and she won’t want to return. If you have pets, put them away for the night. This includes any roommates. Any smells in the bedroom should be light and clean-smelling, nothing heavy or remaining.
Focus on her
The first time you experience each other should be free from accessories. The focus should be solely on each other. This is especially true if you haven’t yet established reassure levels for online sex play. This is not the time to break out the sex toys, the fetishes or any pornography. Do break out the condoms though.

It would also help if neither of you were treacherously inebriated. It is good to have her sound verdict on yes or no, and your sound mental faculties to heed what she says.

You should be patient and make it your utmost concern to please her and let her know how much enjoyment she’s giving you. This can be done by your very vocal enjoyment of her actions, her body and your moans and groans. This isn’t the time for over-sentimentality, professions of undying love or crying jags. If you shed tears, she’ll wonder who the real woman.

Be warm and generous
There is impressive nice about staying the night. And whether you like to admit it there should be cuddling. Many women do enjoy this, and most men do as well.

However, if you prefer your space, learn to read the signs, or give some sign that your intentions are to please her enormously. If mature women invites you to her place and she mentions how she will need to get up early in the morning or that she is a troubled sleeper, she’s telling you that it’s more than OK with her for you to leave after both of you are gleaming with sweat and smiling like loons.

If she tells you about this great coffee place down the street that she visits every morning, she may be telling you that she would like you to stay for dinner. Your response should be honest. Women can and will understand much more than they ought to.

If single girls suspects that you’re dissembling she will probably resent you. Your best play is to be gently upfront with her. Let her know what your intentions are. Work, appointments and life keep spinning and sometimes have to take priority. Just make sure she knows that you want to see her again, and make sure your words follow through with action.

First but not the last

A great first knowledge will invite a second, third and fourth. You can help to insure your success by following the guidelines above. Don’t forget about the little things. If she storms up staying the night, get her a glass of water and place it next to the bed. Leave the bathroom light on and the door somewhat partly open so she can find her way in the middle of the night.

Keep a soft, clean bath towel for her to use and offer her a T-shirt to sleep in. These particulars will help her see that you care enough to want to see her again. She won’t feel like a one-night stand, particularly when you want her to come again.